ARTICLES: The Body Breaks Before the Relationship Breaks-She Crashes Twice & He Crashes Once- The art of Make up to Making It up
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The Body Breaks Before the Relationship Breaks-She Crashes Twice & He Crashes Once- The art of Make up to Making It up
In the Harvard initiative workshop on Marriage and Imbalances in Sexual Relationships due to Social Media, I spoke of something many avoid:
Most emotional conflicts begin as biochemical collapses.
Before words break, vitality breaks.
Before love leaves, hormones leave.
Before intimacy fades, the inner flame dims.
This is not philosophy.
This is P E T S — the axis that holds your life:
- P – Progesterone
- E – Estrogen
- T – Testosterone
- S – Sensual, Social & Stress Energy
When PETS collapses, desire, joy, confidence, patience, and emotional warmth fall with it.
This is why women crash twice (~35 and menopause around 45 )
and men crash once (~41–45).
The effect is uneven.
The burden is unequal.
She crashes twice.
He crashes once.
His life becomes a shard —
but hers is twice as hard.
Control your PETS and start your journey towards the heavenly STEPS.
These exchanges on the sidelines of the workshop were with a senior endocrinologist and his psychology fellows who genially combined and sent it across.
It reaffirmed this:
The first healing is not emotional.
It is endocrine.
When PETS is aligned, it evolves into S T E P S:
- S – Science over superstition
- T – Temperance in lifestyle and senses
- E – Endocrine Balance with food & gem therapy
- P – Psychological integration
- S – Spiritual vitality & grace restored
This is Kaya Kalpa, not as legend, but as living practice.
This is the 9×12 Way.
And this aligns with my research publication in Lex Localis on Fear & Courage, which establishes:
Vitality determines emotional resilience.
Weak vitality cannot hold love.
What you eat, you become.
What you consume, consumes you.
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Humans of Gemstoneuniverse
RECOMMENDATION: Watch “Nayantara’s Necklace”
A short Hindi film starring Konkona Sen Sharma & Tillotama Shome.
A story of:
- Imitation mistaken for aspiration
- Glamour hiding a fracture
- A necklace worn as a disguise for emptiness
We envy what we do not understand.
And often, we imitate wounds, not wisdom.
Link to movie
https://youtu.be/L1TTNOBbN2k?si=e7eVF0U9vueqD1IP
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PRIVATE ACTIVITY (No Discussions. No Sharing.)
Before answering, remember the code:
YOURS THIS = 9
THIS – the life you are living now
YOURS – the life you believe should have been yours
When these two align, truth begins.
After the film, contemplate & answer these 9 questions privately:
- Was this the final mask, or just another layer?
- Was the necklace a jewel — or a borrowed life hanging from your throat?
- Was the rehearsal convincing enough to fool even yourself?
- Was the Disneyland promise truly non-negotiable — or a bribe for love?
- Did you expect the whispers of neighbours and servants during the autopsy of your choices?
- Was the swap so intoxicating that you’d risk repeating it again?
- Was the child’s fate written — or written by your decisions?
- Was the dream of the bigger balcony worth the eviction of inner peace?
- And in the end… was the makeup enough to hide the truth from yourself?
Now:
Step 1:
Take 9 minutes of silence. No phone. No movement.
Step 2:
Replace the word THIS / THE with YOURS.
Answer all 9 questions again.
You will see the distance between your life and your truth.
That distance is where the healing must begin
May I remind you that today’s post and exercise are poignant & poweful but do remember that this post and its concepts should not be viewed in isolation.
The first step would be to go back and refresh yourself with my video on Food intake and consumption titled Jaisa Ann Waisa Mann- followed by my talk on on International Vegan day day, and then the research paper in the prestigious next Lex Localis Journal - See Yesterday’s Post.
Finally , my talk on Pitru Dosha-Ancestral Curses-
once that is done, you are free from the dog’s tail syndrome and so is your child and so also is your next generation. You owe it to your family. Go ahead. Do it.
AND REMEMBER, I AM JUST MESSAGE AWAY AS ALWAYS.
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