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My Regrets The Framework for moving on and living a great Life | Revered and Beloved Param Arjan Guruji Shrii Arnav


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 Dear Guruji do you have any regrets in Life? 

My Regrets- The Framework for moving on and living a great life- The  9:12 Guruji Shrii Arnav’s way



 Dear Guruji do you have any regrets in Life? 

Yes.. One

What is that?

I wasn’t able to be beside my Grandmother in her last moments despite entering India after a long time.

Was it because you were busy and couldn’t see her in that state.

No- I did not want her to see how weak and sick I had become

Interview Over.

 The Above was an exchange during an interview. The Journalist was a seasoned professional quite unlike the sensationalists we encounter today. Maybe it stuck a raw nerve in him too but that’s ok.



 This Vid is of 2017 when Didu was already 93 and I was visiting the small town of ajmer- My Birthplace for approx 48 hours.

As is our way- She ensured that I Had was enthralled by a classic music session followed by the most sumptuous spread of food- meticulously cooked and laid on the table by herself- At 93. Each spoon each fork in the right place- Not a cm here or there.

She passed away in 2023 and I did not go to see her- A Regret. Somebody bitter with her the whole life and who avoided her -did- Karma.



We all have some regrets in life.

Regret= Disappointment / Sadness/ Repentance over something.

Some examples:

 I should not have said that.

 How did I miss that?

 Why I didn’t capitalise on that?

 How did I hurt him/ her


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 Some basic situations but you get the drift.

The  9:12- The Guruji Shrii Arnav’s way:

People suffer because of random thoughts and actions but want everything to be specified and organised- A Dichotomy- QP

Guruji’s way- Guruji Shrii Arnav’s Karma Theory

Life does not have a rewind button or a fast forward button- Life just has a Play button. Till You play you will have a great life. -QP

My work is to gently take you from randomness to an organized approach.




The Brain wiring is a particularly complicated thing. Some people stay in regret mode because staying in that state releases some kind of chemicals in their brain that makes them

get some pleasure out of pain.

The Truth

The Less Regrets you will have the better- You are not God- So stop trying to be one- QP

Enter the Planetary Cabinet of the 9 planets:

The Overcoming Regrets Meditation and Contemplation

Each of the planet in your nativity will give you 1 regret making a total of 9.

Step 1

List down all your regrets

Step 2

Pick only 9 from that list

Step 3

Pick only 3 from the list of step 2

Step 4

Start working with these 3 and the lessons you will derive and arrive will fix most of the things in life.



The Overcoming My Regrets - The Guruji Shrii Arnav Way

My Regrets=9

Search Guruji Shrii Arnav and the power of 9

MY Regrets the Atomicity way :

 M: My

 Y: Yearning


 E: Evolves


 R: Revolutions


 T: Transforming

 S: Self

Enough said. Today is also Gurudev Rabindranath’s Tagore Birth Anniversary.

Granny at age 7 was at Shantiniketan briefly practising classical music.

And if I make an unexpected appearance and pick up an instrument( I rarely do)- Its for a reason- Its not randomness- It is for a season

Have a Beautiful life . Move from Regrets to Elegance.

I wish you well My Dear.


Basi Roti Khate Ho?


To Phir

Aaj Ki Ghatna Kal Kyon Batate Ho


Kal Main Kyon Rehte Ho

Niklo wahan Se





From the desk of Revered & Beloved Guruji Shrii Arnav

Thank you, dear patrons & fans, - To keep us in your prayers & inspiring us to go beyond. You give us strength to follow our Motto –

“Deo Amabiles Et Hominibus” - Pleasing to God & to Men

May you be happy, healthy and protected! – Guruji Shrii Arnav


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Guruji Shrii Arnav

Spiritual Guru, Mystic, Mentor, Astrologer & Author. He is one of the leading experts & professionals in the field of gems and Gemology. He is also an Accredited Jewelry Professional from the GIA (Gemological Institute of America). He is the horoscope columnist and astrologer of the Deccan Herald-a Leading English Daily Published from India. He is widely credited with standardizing Gem Therapy & spreading the knowledge of Jyotish Gemstones at a larger scale.

He is the author of the internationally acclaimed book The Secrets of Jyotish Gems. is a leading online retailer of precious untreated Gemstones that have played a significant role in standardizing the online retail and e-commerce of Gemstones that are rare and highly-valued commodities



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